Flowers wilt. Chocolate gets eaten. Jewelry sits in a drawer. But a love story? A real love story, written down and preserved forever? That's a Valentine's gift that lasts for generations.
Do your grandchildren know how you met?
Not the sanitized version—the real story. The nervous first date. The fight that almost ended everything. The moment you knew. The proposal that didn't go as planned. The ordinary Tuesday when you realized you'd do it all over again.
Most families don't know these stories. They get the headline—"We met in college"—but never the article. The depth. The truth.
This Valentine's Day, I want to challenge you to give the most romantic gift imaginable: not a gift for your partner, but a gift about your partner. The story of your love, preserved forever.
Why Your Love Story Matters
When I was 12, I found a shoebox in my grandmother's closet. Inside were letters—dozens of them—between my grandparents during World War II.
My grandfather was stationed in the Pacific. My grandmother was working in a factory back home. They'd only been married for six months when he shipped out. They wouldn't see each other for three years.
Reading those letters changed how I understood love. Not the Hollywood version—the real version. The fear. The faith. The ordinary courage of two people who chose each other and kept choosing, even when an ocean and a war separated them.
I learned more about love from that shoebox than from any movie or song.
Your love story has that same power.
— Margaret Atwood
The Story You Think Is Ordinary
I know what you're thinking: "Our story isn't that interesting. We met at a party. Or through a friend. Or at work. It's not exactly Romeo and Juliet."
Good. Romeo and Juliet is a tragedy about two teenagers who make terrible decisions and die. Your story is better.
Your story is about:
The small moments. The song that was playing when you first danced. The restaurant where you had your first real fight. The look on their face when you told them you were pregnant.
The hard parts. The year you almost didn't make it. The loss that brought you closer. The compromise that took years to figure out.
The ordinary magic. The inside jokes. The morning rituals. The way they still make you laugh after all these years.
That's what your family needs to hear. Not a fairy tale—a real story about real love that survived real life.
A Story From Our Community
"I was 68 when I started using LifeScribe. My wife had just passed away, and I realized that our kids only knew pieces of our story. So I started recording. How we met at a bus stop in 1972. Our first apartment with the radiator that clanked all night. The time we got lost in Ireland and ended up at the most beautiful wedding between two strangers who invited us to stay.
My daughter read the chapters and called me crying. 'Dad,' she said, 'I never knew Mom was that funny. I never knew you were that romantic.' That's when I understood: our children see us as parents first. They need us to show them we were also lovers, dreamers, young people figuring it out—just like them."
What Your Children and Grandchildren Really Want to Know
We surveyed hundreds of adult children about what they wish they knew about their parents' relationships. The answers weren't about big romantic gestures. They were about understanding:
The Questions They're Afraid to Ask
• How did you know they were "the one"? — What moment made you certain? What doubts did you have?
• What was your biggest fight about? — And how did you get through it? What did you learn?
• What surprised you about marriage/partnership? — What was different than you expected?
• What do you love about them that hasn't changed? — What drew you in at 25 that still draws you in at 75?
• What's the secret? — Seriously. How do you make it work for 30, 40, 50 years?
These are the stories that shape how your children understand love. How they approach their own relationships. What they believe is possible.
And right now, most of those stories are locked in your head, untold and unshared.
Time Is the One Thing You Can't Buy Back
Here's the truth nobody wants to talk about at Valentine's Day:
Time is running out.
Not to be morbid—but to be honest. If you've been married 40 years, you know how fast those decades flew by. And you know, in your heart, that you don't have unlimited time left together.
None of us do.
The question isn't whether your love story will end—all stories end. The question is whether it will be preserved.
Will your great-grandchildren know how Great-Grandma's eyes looked in the candlelight on your first anniversary? Will they know about the letter you wrote from the hospital when the baby came early? Will they know about the second honeymoon that reminded you why you fell in love in the first place?
Or will those moments die with you?
A Valentine's Day Gift That Lasts Forever
This year, forget the roses (or buy them too—we're not against roses). But add something more.
Give your partner the gift of telling your story. Together.
Here's how LifeScribe makes it easy:
Start with our Love Story prompts. We've created special Legacy Quest prompts designed specifically for couples. Things like "The Moment I Knew" and "Our First Year Together" and "What I'd Tell Our Younger Selves."
Record together—or separately. Some couples love recording their stories together, playing off each other's memories. Others prefer to record separately and then share. There's no wrong way.
Let AI polish your words. You talk. We transform your spoken memories into beautifully written chapters. It sounds like you—just the best version of you.
Build your love story, chapter by chapter. Over time, you'll create something extraordinary: a complete narrative of your life together, preserved for your children, grandchildren, and generations you'll never meet.
Love Story Prompts to Get You Started
- How did you first meet? What was your first impression?
- Describe your first date—what went right and what went wrong
- When did you know this was serious?
- Tell the story of your proposal (the real version)
- What was your wedding day really like?
- Describe your first home together
- What's the biggest challenge you've overcome as a couple?
- What tradition do you share that no one else understands?
- What do you love about them now that you didn't notice when you first met?
- What advice would you give to couples just starting out?
For Those Who Are Alone This Valentine's Day
A word for those who've lost their partner:
I know Valentine's Day can be brutal. The displays of hearts everywhere. The couples holding hands. The reminder of what you no longer have.
But here's what I've learned from our members who've lost their loves: writing about them is healing.
Not the grief—the love.
Recording the story of your life together isn't about dwelling on loss. It's about honoring what you had. It's about ensuring that the love of your life isn't forgotten. It's about giving your children and grandchildren a window into a relationship that shaped who they are.
Your love story didn't end when they passed. It continues—through you, through your memories, through the stories you choose to tell.
The Gift That Keeps Giving
Imagine this:
It's your 50th wedding anniversary. Your children have gathered from across the country. Your grandchildren are running around the yard.
And instead of the usual toasts, your son stands up and reads from your Life Book. The chapter about how you proposed. The chapter about surviving that first year when money was tight and the baby wouldn't sleep. The chapter about the trip to Europe when you got lost in Paris and ended up having the most magical night of your life.
Everyone's laughing. Some are crying. And your grandchildren—the ones who will carry your legacy forward—finally understand the depth of what you've built together.
That's the gift LifeScribe helps you create.
Not just for this Valentine's Day, but for every generation that comes after you.
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This Valentine's Day, give a gift that lasts forever—your story, preserved for generations.
Begin Your Love Story →Love Is the Story Worth Telling
At the end of our lives, what matters isn't the careers we built or the things we accumulated. It's the love we gave and received. The people we chose and who chose us back. The ordinary, extraordinary experience of building a life with another human being.
That's the story that matters.
And that's the story your family deserves to know.
This Valentine's Day, don't just buy something. Create something. Something permanent. Something beautiful. Something that says: This is who we were. This is how we loved. And this love will outlast us both.
Your love story is waiting to be told.
All you have to do is start talking.
Happy Valentine's Day from LifeScribe. Here's to the love stories worth preserving—including yours.
